I dated a mormon guy once.. easily the worst mistake of my life. I believe that I was the perfect bait for him. I explained to him that I struggled with my faith and religion to which he told me, "ill help you." I remember thinking, how pure is that? Slowly he would have me read some paragraphs, listen to videos and stories he would tell me. 3 months later, he asks me when I was going to convert to Mormonism. I was like, what do you mean? He told me that we wouldn't be able to get married if I don't convert. Now I date to marry, but that took me by surprise. Can you blame me?? He then took my reaction by offense and claimed that I didn't love him. I was weak so I just told him to give me some time. I soon learned their rules and wow. He hated that I wore crop tops to sleep or any shirts that showed my shoulders. He would call me "immodest", and tell me that I attract the attention of men so that if anything happens to me (you know what I'm talking about) that I deserve it because of the way I dress.

Not only that but being Mormon, you have to save yourself for marriage. He did stuff in his past so he isn't entirely pure. He would tell me how ashamed he was and how we couldn't act on any sexual thoughts we may have. He would say that then the next day he would ask for a video of me doing things to myself. I was so confused and uncomfortable. I would tell him no and he would call me selfish for not strengthening our love to make us stronger because we were doing long distance. He would call to tell me his nasty/dirty thoughts then start crying because he knew God is ashamed of him. I didn't know what to do. He then confessed to me that he couldn't be patient anymore with my decision to convert because he wanted to get me pregnant already to start a family. The entire reason for his strong sexual urges and fantasies about me was to have his children. He wanted me to make a decision ASAP to begin that process and I couldn't do it. We broke up but it didn't take him too long to move on because he was engaged with a Mormon girl after 2 weeks of breaking up!!!!

I still feel traumatized after that relationship lol.